Wednesday, December 14, 2011
I just need to vent, feedback would be nice too
I'm tired of being taken advantage of by my roommate. I constantly pick up after her, I take care of her dogs and I don't complain about it..but I've been pushed to my breaking point. When we moved in together she wanted to buy a bunch of shit for the apartment. That's fine, I told her if she wanted to buy stuff, and for it to be her stuff, that's all dandy. I could only afford the rent that was due a few odds and ends and maybe a little bit of food. She agreed and that wax that. The next day she goes shopping again and brings home a ton of crap we didn't really need... Just because she's an 'interior designer' and wanted things to match...uhhhh, we are fucking poor as fuck, who the fuck cares if shit matches!?!?!? So anyways she has asked me to pay for half of the shit she bought.. I've already given her $100 and I still 'owe' her $250 or so. And when I give that to her I'm going to ask for payment for cleaning and pet sitting services which I had so graciously offered..well, I just did those things. I can't stand a dirty apartment and these poor dogs can't take care of themselves. She's is a self-centered, egotistical bitch. I can truly say had I known she was like this I would have never moved in with her. If I had met her as an adult I would never be friends with her either. It boggles my mind how a 23 year old can still find if appropriate to a t like she is 16. And I hope I haven't annoyed anyone with my rant, but I needed to let it all out.
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i suggest you confront her. talk to her and set boundries and rules. She acts the way she does because you enable her to do so by not calling her out on her shit. Shes 23 years old like you said. She's a big girl now and she needs to hear it from you that what she does is not okay because if not from you then who else is going to challenge her?? the worst she can do is move out and honestly I don't think shes in the position to do so. Anyway stand your ground and don't act like her mother stop doing her shit for her. I'm not yelling at you so please don't get offended but its not your job to cater to her needs just know that. Test it how see how it goes. People need the cold hard truth of reality slammed into their face to make a change.
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